Theory of evolution of Human being...!

I Asked, "What is the theory of evolution of Human being?"

And he replied:

Initially You were never different than animals,

food, kill, fight and reproduction.

Yes! you were the same to same 

As the other living creatures in this world.

 

Then One day You became curious,

and you began to analyze things around you,

and you began to fear about certain things,

and you began to discover things to full-fill your needs.

But still you are same to same,

As any other living creatures do, 

Moving around in herd,

for security, unity and shelter.

I became Impatient.

Then When and How?

And He smiled,

The day You generated emotions,

The day you started empathy,

The day you believed in the almighty,

The day you prayed for the well being of the whole world,

The day you began to differentiate between good and evil,

The day You began to do good to others unconditionally,

The day You find peace at live and let live, The very simple life's principle.

You are truly evolved as a human being..!

But the real question is,

Are you??

And I was silent..!

Am I really a evolved human being?

May be!

I consoled myself,

Or may be I lied..!

May be some day,

Or may be not..!

Are you worthy of your dreams??

And he replied:
"Either have a courage to make your dreams true, or don't dream too much. They are not for weak persons".

Why there is so much hate, despair and disturbance in place of Love, happiness and peace???

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A newbie is born due to love...and People spread love for that !

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An old dies and again the people love and pray for him more and more !

 Then in between...

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what happens to world, to people, to Human being,
 that they spread hate, despair and disturbance in place of Love, happiness and peace.

Purpose of life????

PC

Emptiness has prevailed in my heart. Complete emptiness, neither love nor hate, neither optimism, nor pessimism has any place in my heart.

Am i alive or living without a life ?

What is the purpose of human life?

PC

Just to born, get education, get job, get married, become parents, earn money, create wealth, become old and die, and after 2 generation no1 will ever remember that I ever existed in the past?

Do this all true purpose of human life?

Do I think in such way or every body else?

Is it philosophical attitude or I am  running away from reality???

Am I going insane ????

May be, may be not.....!

चेहरों पे लगे नक़ाब.....!!!

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मिलना और मुलाकात,

जान- पहचान और सच्चे दोस्त।

हर चीज के मायने और नाम,

बदलते तो देखा था कइ बार।
 

पर अब तो वक़्त के साथ-साथ ,

चेहरों पे लगे नक़ाब भी बदल जाते हैं।  

(# Love yourself # 01) ~ Forgive yourself for your mistakes and stop being hard on yourself..!

Yes ! I agree Guruji..! Our mind is like a super computer, or you can say much more superior and complex than it. technically it has also RAM and ROM type of memory. But then why, some events, we are not able to forget?

He argued to his mentor or Assistant teacher, he met him during a ten days Vipasana course, a retired professor. And on Sunday, he and many people like him sit together and practice together, it's like a brotherhood, a brotherly feeling for all, for the world.
 And he has many questions to ask, and he never stops asking and arguing, until he is satisfied with the answers.

Suppose your hand is tied to a pole, and you try to move, will you? until you either  open or break your chains??, Guruji questioned back.

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No! I have to set myself free, i have to break or open the chain. then i will able to move from that place, he said in affirmation.

Yes! you are very near to the solution of your question. The truth. the memories, the events, who haunt you, who make you upset, who create turbulence in your mind, they are just like chains, and you are mentally tied to them dear. Acknowledge your mistakes, accept them, accept them as they are, accept that you did them, and you are prone to do mistake and in future you will do again. then half of your problems end. If you accept that you are just like every one and doing mistakes in life is normal thing, then you will learn the art of being calm in any situation. and if you remain calm, you will able to forgive yourself for doing those mistakes and you will have a softer attitude towards yourself. And if you stop hating, cursing yourself, automatically you will start loving yourself. Yor alone are the best judge, best defense, and  best prosecution. And if you accept yourself, you see yourself, you will create a vibes of change around you. If you forget your past mistake, it means you are breaking your mental chains, and now you are free to move, free to discover new path, you are free from unusual and unnecessary burden, and a new dawn will begin.   
 

अब तुम्हें सिर्फ एक दोस्त मानू, मेरे से कभी होगा नहीं।

और उसने कहा हम अच्छे दोस्त रहेंगे,

और उसने कहा, हम कभी कभी बातें भी किया करेंगे

और उसने कहा, हम मैसेज भी भेज सकते है नार्मल फॉरवार्डिंग वाले।

और उसने कहा चलो इस रिश्ते को अब यहीं ख़त्म करते हैं।

 मैंने हँस कर, मुस्कुरा करा तेरी इस बात को मंजूर कर लिया,

मैंने बिना गिले-शिकवे के तेरी ख़ुशी के ख़ातिर तेरे बनाये हर बंन्दिश को मान लिया

पर अब जिस रास्ते पे बढ़ गया हूँ मैं , वापस वहां से लौटना मेरे बस का नहीं,

अब तुम्हें सिर्फ एक दोस्त मानू, मेरे  से कभी होगा नहीं।

तभी मैं जा रहा हूँ,  दूर,बहुत दूर,

अपने रस्ते अलग करने, अपनी मंजिल अलग करने ।

इतनी दूर जहाँ से मुझे तुम्हे,

सिर्फ दोस्त कहने की जरुरत ही  न पड़े। 

इश्क़ से इबादत तक का मेरा ये सफ़र...!

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पहली नज़र में इश्क़ हुआ,
तेरी भोली सूरत पे ये दिल क़ुरबान हुआ। 


फिर वक़्त की रफ़्तार तेज हुई,
तेरा मेरा मिलना भी कई बार हुआ। 
 

जितना जाना तुझे करीब से, 
उतना ही तुझसे प्यार हुआ। 

 
 
तुम हो भी, और नहीं भी, 
ये स्वप्न है, हकीकत भी। 


अब मेरी चाहत ने कहा मुझसे,
VP, तुझे मुहब्बत हो गयी है उससे। 
 
डर है बस मुझे एक ही,
कहीं ये अपने आखिरी अंजाम तक ना पहुँच जाए। 

 
हुआ था कभी इश्क़ मुझे,
तू  कहीं अब मेरी इबादत ना बन जाए। 

- V. P. "नादान "

RISE..RISE..RISE ABOVE YOUR FEARS..! AND SHINE....!

Monday 9:30 AM

I am fully prepared to attend my first interview of "XYZ" MNC came to campus. 
White shirts, black pant, tie, folder, there is a huge crowd of students in the placement cell. 
People are discussing: total 4 rounds, technical, aptitude, GD then personal interview. Some were very excited to about the company, 6 lac CTC at the time of joining, some were serious. 
I sat on the chair along with 100 students. A huge crowd for 2-3 selection. Is not it?
I am nervous too. Winter and I am sweating. My leg were trembling inside my trouser. 
Why? 
Is this job so important to me? 
Yes! It is! 
Perhaps I am taking too much tension! I tried to calm myself. 
1st round results: I have cleared. 
2nd round results: I have cleared it also. 
3rd round result: Whoa..! I have won. 
Now success was one step ahead to me. I was on the list of finalist with 8 other students. 
My name was called and I entered in the interview hall of placement cell. 6 people in a row and I sat in front of them. Seeing the Vice president of the company, who I haven't seen till the moment today was a surprise. And they started firing questions one by one. 
1st question was about my looks:

"Didn't you have time to shave your beard?" 

I didn't pay attention to shave before appearing for interview. i felt like, my confidence level is going down.

I felt shiver and hotness both inside my body. And I felt like running outside at once. I was unable to give reply. As if I was not able to speak, in spite of answers I knew. 10 minutes seemed to me as 10 years. I came back, and result was out. I was not selected obviously.

I returned to my room and lie to my room and tried to analyze, what went wrong. I have fears of interview, in spite of being topped in technical 1st round, I failed in personal interview section, why?

Bcoz i didn't pay attention towards clean and neat looks.

Some thing was seriously wrong. 

FEAR! 
FEAR OF FAILURE....! 
FEAR OF PERSONAL INTERVIEW....! 

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AND I HAVE TO OVERCOME IT. 
I HAVE TO WIN OVER IT. 
I HAVE TO RISE ABOVE MY FEARS...! 

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Everybody has fears....and they haunt them, may be they seem very little to others, but for that person, ask him, and he will tell. I decided to win....! i slept on the bed. And took a deep breath. And tried to sleep. 

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30 days have passed. 10 more company has come to our campus. But i haven't sat for any of them. Average CTC and my dream company is scheduled to come after 10 days. My batch mates and close friends have tried to warn me not to miss any opportunities of other companies, but i have decided, i will win on my D-Day. 
------------------------------------------------------------------------ 
Finally waiting is over. 
My dream company is in campus. 

I was fully prepared this time. not to repeat the past mistake. I went to the saloon to have a decent hair cut and clean shave before the D-day, and i saw the change in my looks and this increased my confidence level.
And as usual other rounds i have cleared well. Now personal interview. 

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I HAVE TO WIN. 
I HAVE TO RISE. 
I HAVE TO SHINE. 
I HAVE TO SHED MY ANXIETIES. 
I HAVE TO WIN OVER MY FEARS. 

Still I haven't told anybody about my past interview experience. 
I knew, people are more interested to laugh than to help. 

I called my roommate, my best friend. And I told him about fears. 
He is angry, not to telling him earlier. 

There was 2 hour time still to start the interview. We came outside the placement cell. And to the old canteen, which is far from our placement cell. There was no any of our batch mates. Only 2-3, 1st year’s students, as it is nearer to their classroom. And they were busy in attending class. 

We sat on the table near the tree. He ordered two coffee. And we chat. We chat about our 1st interaction in the college. We chat about our 1st ragging or interaction with seniors. We chat about sharing our crush on the same b'ful girl, still we didn't have a fight for her. We chat about watching all the TV series on the laptop together. We chat about all the happy moments in the college. 

Then he told to call my parents. And I called my parents. And I talked to them. Not a single word about interview. Normal talk. and another round of coffee. I became calm. 

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He told me, don't have an expectation. Don't worry about result. Talk to them, as if I am sitting in front of you, and you are talking to me. Tell them, if you know the answers, and if you not, you don't have to be worried. 

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Still there was 0.5 hour. I think, we have to go back, I told. Then we returned back to the placement cell. 

My turn, and next moment I was inside the hall, in front of 7 interviewer. I wished them. And for one second, i imagined, they are people just like us too, they are like my friends, and they are not here to humiliate me, they are here to select me, and then i imagined the moment of watching the happiness on my parents face, when they got to know about my selection. 
 And I felt, my fears are turning to an ant size from a big monster. 
YES! I HAVE WON MY FEARS. 
YES! I HAVE RISEN ABOVE MY FEARS. 
YES! I HAVE GOT SELECTED IN MY DREAM JOB.! 


This post is a part of #WillYouShave activity at BlogAdda in association with Gillette.

I’m accepting and acknowledging the tag of Vartika Goyal through this post 
  

Topics for Girls:
An instance when a stubble came in the way of a man’s chance to make a good impression.
An instance when a well groomed look ensured that they struck gold on an opportunity given to them.
Topics for Guys:
Missed chances- Stories or instances where you missed out on an opportunity because of a non-shaven face.
Luck or Confidence?- Will you leave your fate in the hands of destiny or will you step up and say yes to a well-groomed face to be at your best everyday? #WillYouShave.

की प्यार में देना ही होता है, बिना पाने की कुछ ख्वाइश लिए।

। । चाहत । ।

चाह कर तुझे, ना चाहना छोड़ पाया मैं नादान ,

शायद चाहत ने मुझे, सिर्फ़ तुझे चाहना सिखलाया। 

। । उम्मीद । ।

उम्मीदों की किश्ती में प्यार का समन्दर पार करने चले थे,

ऐ नादान, 

ये किश्ती किस पल किस क्षण टूटेगी, 

ये सोचे बिना, 

उसे चाहने चले थे,

गर टूटी भी तो क्या हुआ,

तू खुश हो ले,

जशन मना क्यूकि

हर आशिक़ को प्यार में डूब जाना हासिल नहीं होता। 

। । हिसाब । ।

क्या करू गिला , और करु क्या शिकवा-शिकायत,

दिया क्या तुझे, और 

क्या पाया तुझसे प्यार में,

ये नादान , हिसाब का पक्का तो नहीं, 

पर सीखा  है शायद इतना जरूर ही

की प्यार में देना ही होता है, 

बिना पाने की कुछ ख्वाइश  लिए।  

- V. P. "नादान"

100 word story: Autobiography of a frog

I was born in this well, having enough food, family and protection. Still I find something missing. I thought of going outside, but people say, outside you have many dangers: danger of being eaten, lost, and killed.

I don’t have enough courage to face fears and dangers. I am habituated to my comfort zone.

But one day I came out of my well.

I ran from snake, hawk, owl. I faced hunger and separation, but in the end, I arrived at a pond near to my well to witness the beauty of the world, the sun, rainbow, and different seasons.